Out Of Body Ecstasy Sex

OBE - astral sex, dream sex, telepathic sex - out of body experiences to enhance your sex life.

What exactly is this OBE sex?  It's a form of energy enhancement, sexual play and sexually satisfaction that involves the use of your mind, your energy fields and your senses.  No physical parts merge, touch or copulate in any manner during an OBE experience. 

Your mind can make a telepathic connection to another human (telepathic sex), your astral body separates from your physical body during REM (dream sex) or your astral body can separate from your physical body while you are awake and conscious (astral sex). 

Whether or not you are in a relationship or if you are single, OBE can enhance your physical sex life by providing your senses with the stimuli needed to cause arousal and even orgasmic release. 

During OBE your physical body can feel the touch of your sexual partner, can smell their scent, hear their voice, taste their body. How can this help to enhance your sex life?  It's a known fact that a healthy sex life translates into a healthier, happier physical existence as it works to lower blood pressure, lose weight and is a good workout for your heart -- not to mention that it energizes your energy fields. 

Life is busy, overscheduled, and stressful making it so that you may not always be up for sex.  However if you don't use your sex drive - you lose it according to leading sexpert, Dr. Pepper Schwartz, which she talks about in her podcast: How To Be A Good Lover. 

OBE turns you on and tunes you into your sexuality.  Upon waking from your vivid dream, returning from an astral visit or coming out of your day dream, if you have a partner they can enjoy the benefits of your exploration.  If you do not have a partner, you will benefit from exploring your own body. If you did not have an orgasm during the OBE, your physical body will be so turned on that you will have to DO SOMETHING to experience a sexual release. 

It is important to note here that when you are engaged in OBE sex that "sex" does not have to occur.  You can merge your energy fields and simply enjoy one another by desiring, loving and energizing. It's your energy and you can do whatever you wish to do with it. No two people experience something the same way and this includes OBE sex. 

OBE is not a form of cheating on your partner as it would be during cyber or phone sex.  Why is that? Because with phone or cyber sex, you are turning away from your partner and inducing into self-satisfaction with another physical human. With OBE you are not with a physical human but with a sphere of energy and upon the ending of your experience, you can turn to your partner and have awesome sex. So with OBE you are contributing to the relationship, not distracting from it. 

The sections below on Telepathic Sex, Dream Sex and Astral Sex are meant to give you a basic overview only in order to get started in your sexual exploration. More detailed guides will be given in the OBE sex book. 

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Telepathic Sex

Have you ever had such an intense day dream that it caused you to become sexually aroused or to experience an orgasm?

Telepathic sex is the easiest to master out of the 3 forms of OBE.

With telepathic sex, you are using your brain power only. Your brain waves connect with another's brain wave in your minds eye you can see and feel the sexual act taking place. Think of this as real-time sex without the physical merging. With telepathic sex, the odds of having an orgasm are very high as none of your energy bodies (astral, mental, emotional - etc...) are separate from your physical body. Can you tell if you make the connection with another person or if it is just a fantasy? Yes you can. How? Just as you can tell with a telepathic communication - you have that zing of energy and a warm flow over your body (other people have been known to get a headache or tremble) when you have that telepathic connection. If this factor is missing in the telepathic sex, then you are simply having a fantasy and not the telepathic sex.

Allie likes to think of telepathic sex as an intense day dream. Out of the 3 - Allie likes telepathic sex the best - only because you can have a real-time orgasm:) And - you can remember most, if not all, of the encounter.

Telepathic Sex: What, When and How

What: 

It has been said that the mind is the largest and most important erogenous zone on a human being. Because this is based on fact and not fiction, it is conceivable that two people can connect via the minds and turn each other on to such a state that an orgasm is achievable from both partners.

When: 

Anytime, anywhere - on a plane, in the shower, in your bed, standing in line -- there are no limits to where it can take place! However, some people find it easier to achieve (at least at first) in a quiet environment. 


How: 

Very basic steps:

1. *You and your partner set up a time and/or day you wish to have telepathic sex.
2. Decide on who will be the instigator - who will be the one to start the session.
3. Several minutes before the prearranged time, make sure that neither of you will have any disturbances. No phones, TV or email!
   Quiet your mind. If you find that you are having distractions from the day, simply imagine a feather and sweep the thoughts out of your mind.
4. Imagine your partner in either a predetermined location (like your favorite place for sex - the beach, the shower, hot tub or in a four-poster bed). If you are the instigator, see your partner standing, back to you. Approach them and stop a few inches away.
   If you are not the instigator, then imagine yourself standing there - waiting.
5. Each of you will be able to feel the other person's presence and the energy involved. That is why it is important that one have their back to the other. When that "feel" is made about the other person, you know that you have a solid connection. Once the person standing senses the instigator behind them, they should turn around.
6. Imagine yourselves having foreplay and sex (if you wish) with one another. Make sure you can absorb and feel the emotions/sensations associated with connection.
7. Allow yourselves to be in the moment. You will be able to feel their lips on yours, hands all over each other's body and intercourse.
   

*NOTE: If you are without a partner, in step 1 think about the positive qualities you want in a sexual partner (or the person you would like to surprise) and think about those qualities/person.  

This is something that can take some practice to get it right. But it is very achievable to anyone who wishes to experiment with this alternative form of sex. Just do not give up.

Can you have telepathic sex with someone without everything being prearranged? Sure you can -  just focus on that person. But just as in your physical life, in the OBE (Out of Body Experiences) realm, respect does apply.

Dream Sex

Do you remember a time or times in your life where you have awoken from a vivid dream to be so sexually turned on that you had to find a release in order to fall back to sleep? 

Dream sex is the second easiest to master out of the 3 forms of OBE. After all, everyone dreams whether or not they remember or not. 

With dream sex, you are asleep with your astral body separating from your physical body and then off into the dreamscape. Normally when you dream, your subconscious absorbs the adventures and keeps them stored in your out-of-the-memory where they can filter in little by little into your consciousness. Everyone can learn how to Lucid Dream (have conscious control of your dreams while you are dreaming) and engage in dream sex with the person or persons of choice. But you do not have to know how to Lucid Dream in order to engage in dream sex!

Dream sex is like astral sex, but you are asleep.  With dream sex, the odds of having an orgasm are low as your astral energy body is separate from your physical body. However, the odds of you waking up sexually excited is very high.  In fact, the odds of you not waking up needing a sexual release are very slim indeed. This is when if you have a partner that they can benefit from your excessive sexual stimulation. Or if you are single, that you can jump into solo exploration and have a very exhilarating release.  But either way, you will have to find a way to have an orgasm if you expect to either fall back to sleep or get up and go about your day. 

Dream Sex: What, When and How

What: 

Everyone dreams - that's a fact. Without dreaming, we would literally go insane as dream time is our way of dumping out excess baggage, exploring new frontiers, engaging in fantasy and visiting loved ones - both deceased and alive.  With dream sex you are having an energetic sexually experience with another dreamer which may lead to a real-time orgasm in either party but for sure will leave you both very sexually turned on upon waking up - so much so that you will need to have an orgasm to fall back to sleep or continue your day. 

When: 

Any place where you are fast asleep. 


How: 

Very basic steps:

1. You and your partner set up a time to engage in dream sex. 
2. *You two need to create the setting where you will meet.  Make sure you get the details down - in fact, write them down if you need to. 
3. At the prearranged time, lie down to fall asleep. Quiet your mind. If you find that you are having distractions from the day, simply imagine a feather and sweep the thoughts out of your mind.
4. Imagine your partner in the predetermined location.  Your partner and the location has to be forefront in your mind as you drift off to sleep. Keep repeating the details to yourself over and over and sleep overtakes you. 
5. You and your partner will meet up and engage in the sexually experience. 
6. You may want to set an alarm for 30 - 40 minutes so that you remember enough of your dream sex to write it down in your journal or notebook. 
7. If your partner is lying next to you - then you two can enjoy the physical fruits of your dream experience.  If your partner is in another location, enjoy yourself as you remember the experience. 

*NOTE: If you are without a partner, in step 2 think about the positive qualities you want in a sexual partner and think about those qualities as you fall asleep. 

Can you have dream sex with someone without everything being prearranged? Sure you can - just focus on that person. But just as in your physical life, in the OBE (Out of Body Experiences) realm, respect does apply. 

Astral Sex

Care to learn how to experience the volcanic eruption of an energetic orgasm? 

Astral sex is the hardest to master out of the 3 forms of OBE. 

With astral sex, you are awake with your astral body separating from your physical body and then off into the astral planes. In order to remember your astral travels, you have to learn how to transfer consciousness from your physical body to your astral body. Two of the best people Allie knows that can help you achieve this is:

Robert Bruce:  http://www.astraldynamics.com/

William Buhlman: http://www.out-of-body.com/

Astral sex is like dream sex, but you are awake.  Like with dream sex, the odds of having an orgasm are low as your astral energy body is separate from your physical body. However, after you return, the odds of you being sexually excited is very high.  In fact, the odds of you not coming back and needing a sexual release are very slim indeed. This is when if you have a partner that they can benefit from your excessive sexual stimulation. Or if you are single, that you can jump into solo exploration and have a very exhilarating release.  

Astral Sex: What, When and How

What: 

To become sexually aroused and engage in energetic sex with another person's energy. In the astral state, energy can be manipulated to a point where it feels and looks like physical body parts are merging -- but they are only energy and not actual physical parts. What is actually happening is the throat chakra's are opening, expanding and engulfing you both into one energized bubble. This can lead to an orgasm in the physical body, although this is rare. In most cases a person would return from their astral travel and be so sexual turned on that they would have to take care of it upon returning and it would be a MUST to take care of, this isn't something that you can walk off. If they are involved with a flesh and blood partner - the partner benefits from this astral turn on by engaging in physical sex with their partner.

When: 

Any place where you will you can get comfortable and not be disturbed. 

How:  

Very basic steps:

1. You and your partner set up a time to engage in astral sex. 
2. *You two need to create the setting where you will meet.  Make sure you get the details down - in fact, write them down if you need to. 
3. Make sure you will not be disturbed. Turn off phone, computer and TV. You may have soft music playing if you find it helps to relax you.
4. Lie down, relax and close your eyes.
5. There are four basic ways for you to part your astral body from your physical body:    

   A) Imagine an exact double of you standing at the foot of the bed looking away. You would see the back of your head/body from where you are lying on the bed.

   B) Imagine an exact double of you rolling out of your body.

   C) Imagine an exact double of you exiting your body out of the top of your head.

   D) Ask for help from an guide or angel and extend out an imaginary hand for them to grab.

    

6. Once you have done one of the four above, transfer your conscious from your physical body to your astral body. You can tell if you accomplished this by noticing that you are no longer lying down.
7. There are different side-effects to separating from your body: headache, buzzing noise, your stomach drops (like you are on a roller coaster), body trembles or nausea. These are all normal and you will have to learn to work through it.
8. When you are out of your body things will look fuzzy. Tell yourself "Clarity Now" in a firm and commanding voice. Things will clear up.
9. The astral layer you are in after you leave your body, reflects the physical realm. If it's dark outside, it will be dark on the astral plane - same if it is light outside or raining or snowing the astral will reflect that.
10. DO NOT think about your physical body as it will end the session immediately.
11. Think about your sexual partner and the location.
12. Have fun!
13. When you are done, think of your body and you will return.

*NOTE: If you are without a partner, in step 2 think about the positive qualities you want in a sexual partner and think about those qualities after your astral body separate from your physical body. 

Can you have astral sex with someone without everything being prearranged? Sure you can - just focus on that person. But just as in your physical life, in the OBE (Out of Body Experiences) realm, respect does apply.